The Sexual Dynamics of Today
Men are 'front-end' loaded. We can get instantly turned on visually to sexual suggestiveness or portrayal of those attributes represented by women. This affects our general behavior when de...

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The Sexual Dynamics of Today

Men are 'front-end' loaded. We can get instantly turned on visually to sexual suggestiveness or portrayal of those attributes represented by women.

This affects our general behavior when dealing with women. I'll stop saying 'we' because although I used to be like that I'm not anymore.

So this male behavioral response applies instantly to the women that men approach, see and try to communicate with. And guess what? It screws everything up!

They're obviously 'interested' in what she has to offer to him because she has the same attributes which he has fantasized about so much; the hot body, perceived beauty and social value.

She KNOWS he's interested and because he's interested in 'that', she's not interested in him because he isn't cognitive of her TRUE sexuality (of which she can never tell a man).

What these men don't realize is that his interest in her hardly matters at all. I cover this topic in other articles but it's really about the woman and what she's going through.

So when another guy 'approaches' her who is obviously 'interested' in her 'body' and is giving her the relational power, she's not interested. It's beyond boring to her and it's completely unattractive.

There's no attraction, no challenge. How can she expect to get value out of a physical relationship if he's going to be like Jim in 'American Pie' when Nadia's on the bed? She's going to be disappointed because he's not being a man who she can trust to push HER buttons.

Women have to be turned on and warmed up. They can't be warmed up if they're cold in the first place. So if men are 'front-end' loaded and women generally aren't?

Is there any hope for men to succeed consistently with women if we're so instantly turned on by their bodies? Yes, there IS hope (finally).

It's time to understand female behaviorism and psychology. True ladies' men understand women, respect them and know how to turn them on and heat them up.

They understand that it's not about his own selfish interest in her, yet rather about her. A true ladies man (above a 'player') can put aside his own selfish interests to take the PATH to the reality of sex itself because he understands women and their true sexuality.

Women are the path to sex. so even though you often want to instantly have sex with the women you see (especially the prickteases which you have been conditioned to respond to), you can't just 'have sex' with them instantly unless you're in a porn contract.

Pornography and sexploitation is the exploitation of the culmination of a Pre-existing relationship. You have to HAVE some kind of relationship already there BEFORE you can have sex (unless you've had it by yourself in a truck, driving..)

So chill out and realize that women are the true PATH to sex and take the path to sex instead of expecting everything upfront and scaring women away.

Give them room to be interested in you by respecting that they are the path and then you'll end up as I like to say 'getting yours'.

The Sexual Dynamics of Today
Men are 'front-end' loaded. We can get instantly turned on visually to sexual suggestiveness or portrayal of those attributes represented by women. This affects our general behavior when de...